Gay Marriage: It's Complicated?

(cross posted from the designated conservative)

With friends and family in California, I watched the recent election battle over Proposition 8 with interest. We experienced a similar election fight here in Michigan a few years ago, with the result that Michigan is one of the majority of states to re-affirm and protect "traditional" marriage. For me, the civic lunacy of gender neutral "Party A" and "Party B" marriage licenses that resulted from the May California Supreme Court decision illustrates why courts are not the place to decide issues of public policy and morality.

However, we humans are complicated creatures, so I suspect that for many people (not just me) opinions and feelings about gay marriage are similarly complicated:

1. As a Christian, I believe that marriage is an eternal institution established by God to be between one man and one woman, and that no government can legitimately alter that. I supported Michigan's constitutional amendment and favored passage of Proposition 8 this year. Children deserve to be raised by a mother and a father in a stable and monogamous partnership. Strong families are the foundations of our neighborhoods, our churches, our schools, our communities, and our country. Legalization of gay marriage in the United States would further weaken the family and corrode the foundation upon which our country exists.

2. As an American, I believe in democracy and the supremacy of the people. In the U.S., laws are established by the people (through referendums like this one) and through the people's elected representatives in Congress and state legislatures. The liberal activism of the California Supreme Court offends me. It is not the place of the judiciary to make laws, and it is certainly not the place of a judge to stick his or her finger in the proverbial winds of culture to decide cases. The law is the law. It is the role of judges to enforce the law, administer justice impartially, and limit interpretation of the law to those instances where the intent of the legislature is unclear from the text and where a law may violate Constitutional limitations on government power.

3. As a person with a close family member living a homosexual lifestyle, I was happy to receive word that he and his long-term domestic partner had decided to marry in San Francisco. Long ago I welcomed his partner in as part of the family, and I love my family member no less because of his lifestyle choices. I'm glad that they have chosen to take this step to further their commitment to one another.

I don't find any contradictions in these seemingly conflicting ideas. As a complicated human being, I can hold these apparently opposing beliefs simultaneously, because they are all grounded in the Gospel of our Savior and Lord Jesus Christ.

Christ taught that we must abhor sin, but love the sinner. He taught that we all sin, and we all can be forgiven of our sins if we repent and come unto Him. It is through our behavior that we sin, not our feelings. We all are tempted to sin (including those that have feelings of same sex attraction) - to be tempted is not the same as sinning. We sin when we give into temptation, including homosexual sex.

I am a Christian, and I work to keep His commandments and follow His example. I believe that as the United States keeps close to the intent of our Founding Fathers, as expressed in the Declaration of Independence and Constitution, we will prosper as a country. We are at heart a Christian nation founded on Christian principles. When we fall away from those principles as a nation, we will fail.

Being a Christian nation does not mean an autocratic theocracy, but it also does not mean that we should accept the redefinition of sin into virtue. Gay marriage is a poor counterfeit for the real thing, and those that seek to force society to approve their lifestyle choice seek nothing less than to compel me to give up my faith and my beliefs for theirs.

As evidenced by the near riots and violent protests at the LDS Church temple in Los Angeles, attacks and vandalism of church properties, and attempted intimidation of those that donated to the effort to pass Proposition 8, the pro-gay marriage minority seeks to impose a politically-correct thugocracy in America.

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Well Put, But..

I believe your posting is very well worded and i commend you for articulating your point in a rational manner.  Although we should not have to, we must take a sympathetic tone when discussing such hot button issues with members of the left, as they are fueled by their emotions.  An inkling of condascension can turn someone off completely regardless of how thoughtful or rational your argument may be.  I hate this fact and really wish that people on the left could engage in a discussion of ideas without thinking a blind imposition of their ideologies is the only logical result.

My question to you is how do you respond to the folks that think the homosexual lifestyle is not a lifestyle choice at all, but a normal way of life that they are born into?  How do you respond to people that think gay rights are no different that the rights sought during the civil rights movement?  I believe there are simple and easy answers to these but welcome your opinion and ideas as well.

The bible puts a lot of prohibitions on idolatry

Considering that homosexual acts were used in pagan churches of the timeperiod of the Torah, it should come as no surprise that the bible is not actually speaking against homosexuality, but against idolatry.

This puts the ban against homosexuality, in the same line as "stone the witches" and very very different from the "don't boil a calf in it's mother's milk."

Just sayin'

Just Plain Wrong

Where do you get your facts?  Verbal vomit again on this post and so many others.

The Bible does speak directly against homosexuality in 1 Corinthians 6:9:

"Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders"

Leviticus 18:22, where there is no reference to idolatry:

"Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination"

Pretty straight forward, RisingTide.

I am giving you the standard jewish explanation

so as to the first, I do not believe that is part of the bible. And as to the second, I believe in the Tanach, which includes the Oral Law, and which concludes that the entire purpose of that fence was to prevent idolatry.

Cut and dried, if you don't like it, well, I guess that's why you aren't Jewish.

weak

weak response since we're discussing a Christian perspective and the Bible not the Torah. so when was 1 Corinthians not part of the Bible?

why exactly are we discussing a chrisitian perspective?

and I said that I do not believe that corinthians is part of the bible. I believe that the bible is the Torah, and none other. I do not believe these are hard concepts to understand, even if you do not believe in them.

peace out.

Is using the force inherent

Is using the force inherent in government action to enact a set of restrictions moral?

Especially when the acts being restricted do not violate the rights of any person.

I'm all for the government getting out of the business of marriage all together.

I think there are ways to persuade people to live a moral life, that don't have anything to do with using the coercive power of the government.

If Govt Gets Out Of Marriage.

Govt needs to support marriage since it is the normalizing force that helps to stabilize our society.  The facts supporting traditional marriage in families clearly show how beneficially it is in regards to things like earning potential and education .  Since the institution is religious in nature, and our country's priciples are founded on those religious principles govt needs to support it. 

What does gov. do to support marriage?

I don't think there's enough facts about gay marriage that one could make a considered opinion about them.  Even when legalized, it doesn't look like there are enough unions to be worried about.

But this does come down to liberty vs government coercion.

I don't think God's plan is to use government coercion to force people into making the moral choice.

And here's a serious question for you.  What does government do now to support marriage?

Not Sure of Your Opinion

So you think gay marriage is a good thing?

Anyway im not talking about government coersion at all.  Govt should support gay marriage in a similar manner they do Civil Unioins or Same Sex Domestic Partnerships, which my state is one of them.  They should support them with protection and rights with the fact that a two parent traditional household is more beneficial to children.  They should champion the FACTS supporting Real Marriage in producing healthy socially and economically successful people.  Most Americans are fine with Civil Unions so people's modern idea of rights arent trampled on, but altering the fundamental institution without clear-as-day empirical evidence that it would do society a relative good is nonsensical.

We should never look to Europe as a guide.  Nor should we ever legislate on emotion.

the government should offer civil unions

and only civil unions, with the particulars guided by the Quaker Marriage (find a few witnesses, sign a document, and you are united).

No marriage. That's religious and you can do what the duck you please.

How's about that, you liberatarians? ;-)

That is actually what I think

That is actually what I think we will end up with.  And I don't think it would be disasterous to society.  But that's just my opinion.

Please, if you can, show me

Please, if you can, show me by what tangible measure would gay marriage harm society.  Two gays getting married doesn't effect my marriage, and I don't believe it has a negative effect on my community.

I don't think the government should be telling churches who they can and can't marry.  As long as they are non-related consenting adults, I really don't have a problem with it.

The Federal govt, especially doesn't have a role in it.  States are the where the decision should lie, and I agree, not the courts.

 

The man who truly understands the past does not detest all change; on the contrary, he welcomes change, as the means of renewing society; but he knows how to keep change in a continuous train, so that we will not lose that sense of gratitude which Marcel describes. As Burke puts it, "We must all obey the great law of change. It is the most powerful law of nature, and the means perhaps of its conservation. All we can do, and that human wisdom can do, is to provide that the change shall proceed by insensible degrees. This has all the benefits which may be in change, without any of the inconveniences of mutation."
The outward fabric of our world must alter, as do our forms of society; but to demolish all that is old, out of a mere contempt for the past, is to impoverish that human faculty which yearns after continuity and things venerable. By such means of measurement as we possess-by such indices as suicide-rate, the incidence of madness and neurosis, the appetites and tastes of the masses, the obliteration of beauty, the increase of crime, the triumph of force over the law of nations-by these signs, it seems clear, all that complex of high aspiration and imaginative attainment which makes us civilized men is shrinking to a mere shadow of a shadow.

 

Can't

Just happen to believe that moral depravity is a precursor to a weakened society.  And as our values decline, so does our nation. 

As a conservative i believe that America does not need fundamental changes, we need some areas worked on an revamped, but not radical change from the ground up.

And where does the Constitution

Allow the right to judge 'moral depravity' for the masses? Thanks, but your moral depravity is my enlightened thinking.

Gay marriage is no more a radical change from the ground up then interracial marriage was.

Really? How Bout This?

Just the idea that you can put the so called "gay rights" on the same playing field as interracial marriage shows you how backwards you are.  Human beings being neglected human rights do not compare to sexual preferences being pushed onto the majority as a norm.

The fact that people in the past were against interracial marriage really made no sense as any of their religious doctrines did not speak to that.  But no religion in history has sought to recognize homosexual marriage.  So you are so enlightened above and beyond every religion all throughout history?  Must be nice being as smart and enlightened as you.

And as every single state has voted the way i believe, people think your enlightenment IS MORALLY REPUGNANT.

Thank you for proving why we shouldn't make decisions...

...based on 'morals'.

You think my enlightenment is repugnant, and I think the opposite. So whose 'morals' are correct in this instance? I feel that if two sides seem equal, we should side with the option that provides the most liberty; in this case, gay marriage.

No one is 'forcing' sexual preferences upon you. Or are they going to start forcing straight people to marry?

Some religions HAVE allowed homosexual marriage actually, but that's not considered because the "Big three" (Judaism, Christianity, Muslim) do not support it.

Enjoy your victories now. Look at the splits for the younger generation; many of them have no issue with gay marriage. As the saying goes: You've won the battle; you won't win the war.

most American jews support homosexual marriage.

you really have to be talking orthodox to find someone who wouldn't.

I went to an ultraconservative shul, and even we didn't say that homosexuality was wrong.

here we go again, mixing religion with government and law

 Let me start by saying that I have mixed feelings about gay marriage. For a long time society has criticized the gay community for living a reckless promiscuous life style, and yet when they try to embrace marriage and monogamy they are denied. On the other hand, I worry about children being raised in a gay home, and allowing gay marriage nationwide may increase adoption rates for gay couples...we need more data.

I'm not ambiguous about separation of church and state. The last argument that should ever be used is a religious one. I dont care if some book written thousands of years ago somehow implies that gays should not marry or be together.. Gay people I dont believe are trying to force their lifestyle on anybody. They just want to be able to be married and visit their partner when they'rer sick in the hospital or have access to benefits that married couples enjoy. While marriage may have had its roots in religion (is that a fact?) society has attached benefits and responsibilities to it with its laws, and married couples enjoy these benefits. The day that happened, society opened the door to all people as it serves all people. If you wanted to keep it religious, then why not have a religious ceremony and be done with it? as far as I can tell,  gay people are not trying to force churches to marry them, right? It is people like you that are trying to impose your lifestyle (straight) on them. The point is what you choose to do in your life; it is a personal choice. If you believe that you are going to burn in hell if you are gay, then dont have a gay lifestyle. But to use your own religious views to try to mandate how others should live their lives is medieval and it is wrong. Take a look at the middle east, that's how they live their lives : with superstition and religion, and their brains completely closed off. There are plenty of rational arguments that can be made against gay marriage...the bible is not one of them. 

 

 

Actually the bible is one of them

As well as every major religion in existence, none of which ascribes to supporting of gay marriage.

And yes, gays are trying to force their lifestyle onto others, not so much as saying eveyone should be gay, but to remove any judgements or moral challenges that their lifestyles deservingly have placed on them.  Dont try and turn the argument into "They just want to be able to be married and visit their partner when they'rer sick in the hospital or have access to benefits that married couples enjoy."  That is a bogus argument comparable to people's support for abortion saying, well, what if a woman is raped, should she be forced to give birth to the baby?  Any rational person agrees that a raped woman should have emergency contraception as well as a gay person being given a the same partnership rights as a traditional spouse.  That is not what they are trying to gain.  They are trying to alter the fundamental union that provides stability to our country, and to remove the stigmas on the gay lifestyle so it will be taught to our children in our schools amongst other things.  Do supporters of gay marriage not realize that onces that is put into law, it wont be long until polygamy will be legal and normalized as well.  Shoot, how bout marrying children, how bout marrying animals, they should have the same proctection as real marriage.

People in this country our free to live the way they like, thats why it is so great.  No one is imposing a straight lifestyle on any else.  Human nature is doing that for us all.

I grew up in a very conservative temple

but we still said that gay was not immoral. So, sorry. Most Jews in this country and in the world do not share your prejudices.

(and, just to remind you that the bible wasn't written for Sunday School, G-d told Adam to bugger all the animals in the Garden of Eden, so that he might name them -- I find this amusing, in that there was no sin at the time).

Most people would not agree to a traditional marrage in this day and age. Most people would be horrified at the serial adultery that was commonplace when kids were married at the age of 12, and a girl was culturally supposed to just lie back and get fucked, no matter who wanted it (be it her father in law -- very traditional that, or just Joe the Shepherd down the street).

Medieval culture was weird, but it's very important to remember that marriage was fundamentally an economic contract.

Yay america, where we actually try and stop rape from occuring.

>And yes, gays are trying to

>And yes, gays are trying to force their lifestyle onto others, not so much as saying eveyone should be gay, but to remove any judgements or moral challenges that their lifestyles deservingly have placed on them.

And there's the crux. You think homosexuality is shameful. How can you have so much faith in your God, and then shame the 5% of society that he would choose to make gay?

> [They are trying to] ... remove the stigmas on the gay lifestyle so it will be taught to our children in our schools amongst other things.

Nonsense. You want to pretend that gays don't exist. Since the founding of this country, gays have been shamed and stigmatized by self-righteous Christians. They've been forced into the closet. It's bad as an adult, but you can't imagine what this does to a child; to know that he's different, but to know at the same time this his parents, his peers, and his community would never accept him if they knew what he really was. Many of the problems the gay community has, I ascribe to this sort of emotional damage.  

That's what kills me about the "for the children" arguments from conservative commentators. It's so disingenuous. If only they knew the damage they were causing their own children!

 "And yes, gays are trying to

 "And yes, gays are trying to force their lifestyle onto others, not so much as saying eveyone should be gay, but to remove any judgements or moral challenges that their lifestyles deservingly have placed on them"

 

I had to quote this directly because I find this argument remarkable in two ways: its honesty and its cruelty. I was raised catholic to believe in an non-judgemental forgiving God. I cannot imagine a more unforgiving God than one that promotes its followers to judge and mistreat a group pf people for a tendency they have no control over and that isn't harmful to anybody, This judgemental brand of religion is, with all due respect, one of the major causes of pain and suffering around the world and throughout history. I would much rather be gay than a heartless judgemental jerk. 

 

 "They are trying to alter the fundamental union that provides stability to our country, and to remove the stigmas on the gay lifestyle so it will be taught to our children in our schools amongst other things."

 

Another remarkable comment. Why should there be a stigma? do you actually believe that telling older children (whenever they get sex ed) that a small percentage of the population has this tendency and they chose a homosexual lifestyle, would cause straight children to become gay?????  is that the fear??? homosexuality is not a choice; people are born that way. I have many gay friends, since high school, It didnt make me gay in any imaginable way. If you want to start an honest narrative as to whether homosexuality is something people are born with or not, that would be interesting, but be honest in accepting what the evidence says.

 

" it wont be long until polygamy will be legal and normalized as well.  Shoot, how bout marrying children, how bout marrying animals, they should have the same proctection as real marriage"

where to start? the easy one first: of course you cant marry children and never will , since they are not legally capable of consent.  second: animals? is that a joke? hundreds of laws have been passed that extend the rights of one group to other groups without animals eventually getting included: allowing women and blacks  to vote (dont recall seeing my dog at the polls), integration of races in schools (last time I checked there was no goat in my class...well maybe once but that's another story...) women in the military...do I really need to go on? thirdly: polygamy: that's more realistic...I suppose people could challenge the traditional meaning of marriage to accommodate polygamy but not clear why allowing gays to marry would open the door to polygamy. If serial adultery, multiple marriages and divorces  didnt do it, I doubt monogamous gay marriage would.

 

"Human nature is doing that for us all"

but it is gay people's nature (and we agree they are human, correct?) to be gay. You must be referring to the long held myth that homosexuality is not natural. Actually is quite natural and common in the animal world (if you dont believe me, go spend some time in the lab studying the behaviours of some birds, or mice, or examine chimpanzees in the wild). It has been documented for over a thousand species...I'm pretty sure they did not learn it in school...the rate in non-human primates is similar to humans: about 10%. I should know...I have a PhD in population genetics. really. 

 

So stop judging and let others live their lives. You will find it refreshing not to go around judging people you dont even know, for things they dont have control over.

marty

mind dropping me a few links on non-situational based homosexuality in animals? (having this discussion somewhere else. and since you've got the research...)

A couple of questions

1. Since you say in your second point:

 As an American, I believe in democracy and the supremacy of the people.

When gay marriage is made legal will you support the right of gays to marry in the United States?

2. Since support and preservation of traditional marriage is so important, would you support legislation outlawing divorce? If not, why not? Since the state, in your view, can deny marriage to one class of citizens in order to preserve the social values of traditional marriage, doesn't the state have an interest in requiring married citizens to remain in their marriages in order to preserve those same social values?

I raise these issues to address the conflict between freedom (get government off my back) and the state's role in enforcing social values.

The State's role in enforcing

The State's role in enforcing social values are called LAWS.  What would you like to live in anarchy?

Your premise is false.  Sexual preference does not fall under the fail of the protected class.  Stop trying to victimize the gay community.

Show me facts to support Gay marriage having a positive effect on society as well as the fact that 100% of their children will not be Democratic when they grow up and i may change my mind.

never heard of the log cabin republicans have you?

Gay Marriage will allow fewer kids to grow up in foster care. That is a good in of itself. Take kids out of the governmental system. (statistics show that said kids will be no more likely to be gay than the rest of the population, so take that strawman that no one else has yet raised)

Do You Really Care About The Well Being of Children...

If so read this.  Please dont tell me this is more of a reason to support gay marriage or something about intolerance or blah blah.  We've seen their "Intolerance" over the weekend.

http://www.boston.com/news/local/articles/2006/03/11/catholic_charities_stuns_state_ends_adoptions/

Same Sex Couples as opposed to Foster Care should be a last resort if there are no other famililes that can be found.  Personal responsibility comes before that.

I am on record as favoring infanticide.

so yes, I would say that I care about the wellbeing of children. Enough to engage in "murder" as civil disobedience.

If there were enough people, in general, who would care for a child -- I don't think we'd be having this conversation.

Gay people are quite capable of engaging in hetero activity in order to reproduce (or by using spermdonors).

I do not understand what personal reponsibility has to do with anything, but I am glad that you will support adoptions rather than foster care.

There's a perfect example of

There's a perfect example of the government trying to control what a church does or doesn't do.

Whenever the govt has to much control, that is the result.

I don't think they should be forced to provide their services equally to all.  They are not the sole provider of adoption services.

could we agree...

that they should (would have to) give information about a different adoption service?

Yeah, I don't have a problem

Yeah, I don't have a problem with that.  "Sorry, but I don't think we can serve you very well.  You might try.... "

I really think on social issues, a more libertarian philosophy would result in the most liberty, and the lest government power over our lives.

I've offered a suggestion that would put this issue aside as a national issue, allowing state parties to adopt what is best for their states.  From the looks of it, there's not going to be any consensus anytime soon on this thread.

And that's the nature of politics, building a consensus position around which to act.

Yikes!!!  So now part of your

Yikes!!!  So now part of your argument is that they wil raise Democratic children.  Talk about unserious.

Show my FACTS that gay marriage has any negative effect on society.

How can something be measured if it isn't allowed.  You want facts of something that hasn't existed for long in the world.

That was a half hearted joke

That was a half hearted joke that is most likely true.  Similar to the argument that giving the 15+ million illegals in the country amnesty will increase the democratic voting base by around 12 million.  Not a real serious argument but a point to be raised.

You prove my point.  You dont legislate on a feeling.  So if a group of people in 15 years think that adults should be able to marry children they should be allowed to?  There would be no empirical evidence to support that it would be detrimental to people, but common sense would tell us otherwise.

"The law is as it has been for 200-plus years, and so the burden is on them to make the persuasive case as to why they should be married, not just for their benefit but for what the impact is on society and marriage as a whole, and on children."  Former Senator Rick Santorum

i'm sorry, but please don't quote the person

responsible for filling our military with brainwashed fundamentalists.

I find reading anything by the man personally offensive.

(who said democrats had to be optimists? bah!)

As noted above, consenting,

As noted above, consenting, non-related adults.  Marriage can currently occur at age 13 in the US.  So even my definition wouldn't fit with today's reality.

Marriage laws have had two major revisions these past 200 years.

Polygamy was ruled illegal in 1878

Interracial marriage was illegal until 1967

Both were traditions that had strong religious/moral/social foundations.

In the end, you are also legislating this issue based on a feeling.  Because there is NO EVIDENCE either way that gay marriage would harm or benefit society.  I'm of the opinion that at the least it would be do no more harm to society then any other marriage.

Interracial Marriage

did not have religious or moral foundations.  The idea of interracial marriage went against religious views as no religion has a doctrine prohibiting it.

I understand without making it legal they will not have evidence of its complete or exact impact, but please do not compare gay rights to civil rights that all races should be afforded.

From the actual

From the actual decision.

Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival. To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State's citizens of liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discriminations. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State.

Just playing devils advocate, but if you are going to say that marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," how can you deny it between two consenting adults.

because

You would be saying that there are no differences bt the sexes and that is ridiculous. 

oh, do go on, and tell me what these differences are

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Look at west virginia

can get married as young as you and the judge and your parents please. man, some states are odd (13 is new hampshire? weird)

NH is my state of record

Trust me, they're crazy there. Ever heard of the Free State project? Wacko libertarians. :D

oh, my yes!

knew some libertarians in college (they voted for obama, i'm pretty sure).

I figure the Democrats have more of a chance of moving enough people into Montana to turn it blue, than the libertarian party has in getting it's act together. ever.

I love small-l libertarianism

It's just that Big-L libertarians always go a step too far. Libertarians start off saying, "We have too many taxes!" and the crowd goes wild. Then they say, "We shouldn't be taxed at all!" and a few less people start to clap, as they wonder who's paying for the miltiary. By the time they get to, "Taxation is theft!" everyone in the crowd has already left.

I like japan's military ideas

spend on the prototypes, test 'em well, and plan to build them only in case of a war.

then again, sony lets their tanks chase after people they don't like, so... maybe having a few around is a good thing.

OP raised the issue that state has interest in trad marriage

My post was intended to state 2 things: 1) gay marriage will eventually become the law of the land. No social change of this sort has ever failed to take hold in the US. I was merely asking whether OP by virtue of his stated committment to US law would support gay marriage.

My second question is whether given the state's interest in preserving trad marriage how would OP feel about outlawing divorce.

Nowhere did I advocate doing away with laws and living in a state of anarchy. Your post seems to have jumped the rails from the get go. Rather my post was asking about two hypothetical laws, one looking to the future when the law of the land will allow gay marriage and a backward looking law that would outlaw divorce in order to protect traditional marriage. In other words, is outlawing gay marriage the only and best way to protect marriage?

We are not led by the majority of the people

We are not a democracy. We are a REPUBLIC. There is a difference.

Thanks

Typical liberal style comeback.  Avoid the issues and the substance and aim to discredit the person.

Santorum has discredited himself

not his ideas.

tangential I.

In the end, we have to either

In the end, we have to either come to a consensus or part ways on this subject. Which is what we have to do for many of these social issues.

The relevant question for the RNC is what role should the Federal government have in marriage.  Saying it's a matter of conscience, and up to the states to decide is well within the principles of the Republican Party.  At least as stated on their website.  IMHO.

Would that be an acceptable platform plank for social conservatives?