I had a very disturbing conversation with a pro-choice relative of mine the other day. The conversation arose because I had heard that Barack Obama voted against protecting babies that had been born as the result of a botched abortion. Whatever anyone's views about abortion, I had figured that once the baby was born, that was it. Well, I was wrong. Here is a paraphrasing of my conversation:
Me: Look, once the baby is born, you can't just kill it, that's murder.
Her: I'm just not willing to go that far.
Me: What do you mean? The abortion is over. The baby is out.
Her: I see what you're trying to do. I'm just.. it's more complicated than that. You have all these 21 week olds and doctors have to make decisions.
Me: Let's not get distracted. Suppose it's a 28 week old. Shouldn't you treat the baby the same way you'd treat any 28 week old preemie?
Her: It's more complicated than that.
Me: OK, let's nail this down. Forget 28 weeks. Say it's a 38 week old.
Her: There's almost no 38 week abortions in the country.
Me: I know. Just let's play this out. Ok, here's a question: A woman is home and she's 38 weeks pregnant. She gives birth at home. Someone comes into the house and takes the baby and throws it out the window. That's murder, right?
Her: Right.
Me: Ok. The woman is home and she's 38 weeks pregnant. She has an appointment with an abortionist. But before she can go, she gives birth. She then throws the baby out the window. How is that not murder?
Her: It's more complicated than that. I just can't call it murder.
She then raised the example of a 7th grader who was raped by her uncle, gave birth in her middle school bathroom and discarded the baby. I just couldn't get her back on track.
A strongly pro-choice person cannot consider a late-term abortion murder. Yet just as a pro-life person doesn't see a significant difference between a baby with an hour left inside the womb and a baby out of the womb for an hour, neither can the pro-choice person. Thus, they are confronted with the problem that their justification for permitting abortions of babies inside the womb eventually justifies permitting the killing of babies outside the womb.
Judging the worth of a baby based on the mother's desire for it takes us back literally thousands of years to before Judeo-Christian Civilisation. Do we really want to bring back a feminist version of pater-familias? How did we get to a place where people don't understand this?